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Monday, April 13, 2015

Dick Pics... not okay!

I'm pretty sure I've written about this topic before, but it bears repeating... Sending a girl an un-solicited, out-of-the-blue, she-never-saw-it-coming (pun intended) picture of your junk is NEVER OKAY!! (Sometimes it's okay... as in, we've been together for a long time and I KNOW she'll think it's hot because she has explicitly told me so). Otherwise.... no.

I don't understand when it became acceptable for a guy to randomly & without invitation or notice send a woman a picture of his man-parts. As someone who has spent some time in the cesspool that is online dating, I have been on the receiving end of many such pictures. I used to be shocked, but now I just laugh & show all my friends.

Guys... women do NOT think this is hot! It does NOT turn us on! What it does is tell us that,

1) You are selfish and only care about yourself
2) You are only looking for a hook-up
3) You are an ass
4) You will NEVER see us naked. We will not reciprocate, and we no longer have any interest in seeing/meeting/getting to know you. You are done here. Move along. Goodbye.

I did some research to try and find out why guys do this... why they think this is an acceptable and okay thing to do... I didn't learn much, other than guys who will send someone a picture of themselves in full frontal nudity are not worth getting to know (but I already knew that), but the comments on some articles I came across are muy hystericals. So, for your enjoyment as well, here ya go.

http://jezebel.com/should-you-send-a-lady-a-dick-pic-a-guide-for-men-885697791 (my favorite article, by far, in the history of ever)

http://guff.com/glt-women-and-penis-pics/20?ts_pid=2&ts_pid=2 (A VERY entertaining video of women responding to dick pics)




So, in conclusion, guys, stop sending us pics of your bits. We don't want them. Seriously. Stop.
Ladies, if you are on the receiving line of such a picture, break it off (contact, not the...you know.) You seriously don't need that kind of negativity in your life. ;)